When you forfeit your personal responsibility as adults for the actions you choose, you stop moving forward and instead stay stuck in your circumstances, perpetuating your suffering. Sometimes we all find it easy to slip into this tendancy, because this is just life on Earth (as you’ve heard me say), and accidents happen. Occasionally a bone breaks, fenders get banged, and people we love get sick (some even die). From now on, no excuses.
Are you using your Victim Language to keep you from being responsible for being promoted, getting workouts in, eating right, or making tough choices that will attract more love, happiness and success in your life? pg. 115
Mark F. Weinstein
